The Fatal Mistake Of Handing Over The Responsibility of Creating Your Perfect Love Life To A Clueless Man... Clarence,

Are you looking to experience more love, happiness and fulfillment in your love life?

Does there seem to be "something missing" from the way you and a man interact that's either keeping you from connecting on a deeper personal and emotional level...

Or is he being RESISTANT when it comes to getting closer with you?

Then you've got to read the real-life story about a woman's failures, growth, and successes with the "unavailable" man in her life. She shares how she went from feeling frustrated and confused to learning how to feel empowered and confident... and describes exactly how she made this change.

Can't Even "Get Through" To Him? If you can't connect with your man on a personal and emotional level, and you don't know what he's thinking or where his head's at these days, it doesn't have to be the "beginning of the end" for your relationship.

The REAL reasons why men pull away when you try to talk to them about something meaningful can be found right here:

Communication Secrets

I've been accused of many things on the web (don't we bloggers subject ourselves to much criticism?), but two weeks ago saw a first: Regular Her.meneutics contributor Sharon Hodde Miller compared my personal blog post "10 Reasons He's Not Calling You," excerpted from the book Have Him at Hello, to a "Cosmo checklist," calling it a prime example of how not to help single women. I generally agree with Miller, that blaming women for their own singleness is not helpful. But I'd also argue that blaming men for being, well, men, is equally unhelpful. I've noticed this trend in Christian circles as of late.

There is no shortage of op-eds complaining about the lack of good men, a new study about men falling behind in the workforce, or another lamenting the marriage crisis because men won't grow up and get a real job. In the most recent Internet skirmish, author Suzanne Venker claimed a war on men is in full-force—and that women are actually to blame for the lack of marriageable men. She asserts that the rise of women has changed the dance between the sexes, and that men apparently do not want to be married because "women aren't women anymore." We allegedly aren't feminine or appealing enough, and are pushing men away with our career achievements.

From the Christian women I see around me, Venker misses the mark entirely. Christian women in general are still exuding feminity and not giving away free sex—but men are still not readily willing to give up their bachelor pads and buy a ring. So what's the problem? Are men to blame?

But Venker is correct about one point: There is, in essence, a war on men in the sense that men are often blamed for the current state of our relationships. It's become acceptable for women, including Christian women, to stand around and toss verbal grenades at men for all our dating woes. "There are no good men anymore"; "All men are jerks"; "Men these days are pathetic"; "If he would man up, I might have a shot at love." Don't get me wrong: There are plenty of jerks out there, and one of my life passions is to help women know how to identify them before it's too late. I've been accused once or twice of being too hard on men, so I'm speaking from experience, not judgment.

When I was in college, I spent the better part of two years hanging out with Christian men in a fraternity. I watched as my friends were asked to date party after date party, formal after formal—and grew more and more resentful. Other guys were asking me out, but the Christian men didn't express interest. I became dismissive, flippant, and frustrated. By the time I was a senior, I was so hurt from being overlooked that in front of a Christian guy friend I announced, "I've never been asked to anything!"
By Ruthie Dean, guest write for Christian Today
Ruthie Dean, guest writer

My beautiful Sisters,
We are fearfully and wonderfully made
In the Image and likeness of our Heavenly Father, His Spirit lives in us,
So let us encourage and uplift one another in Peace and love, as He leads
Us by the power of His LOVE!

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